You like then jio her out lah..... get to know HER
better...
Don't bother too much about wad the sis / mother etcetc say lah....
that's feedback noise , you'd be crazy to take it seriously .
One thing though, postergirl has to have some maturity and calm
mindset... she can't be the childish impressionable type of girl
... cos I don't think that type will know how to handle a
relationship with tricky family involvement well... she's had past
relationships I assume? LOL